Our expectations kills our relationships
When you date a lady or you dating a guy there a expectations that we put each other through , of which if the second person fails them we get frustrated asking ourselves have we picked the right partner .
Lady expect a guy to know how dig a hole and hold a spanner or furthermore be able to fix things at home , while a guy expect a lady to know how to cook , do laundry and dishes .
In this modern days this norms are no more the case , as not all blacks are born poor we are raised from different families , some of us grow up where there is a helper , which means I will not know basics things because someone get paid to do that .
Thus this mean I am not ma enough if I can't fix or hate picking heavy load , thus this mean a lady isn't a woman enough if she can't cook or hate the kitchen .
