Being a woman is a task

I'm so thankful that was born a man ,this means don't have keep up with most of the things woman have keep up with
A woman have  to look good at all times ,some buy clothes every month , while others change their hair  style  every three months ,while most of ladies wear tight clothes just to  look" hot  and beautiful ".As if that isn't enough others goes further by putting gold on their teeth .

However looking all that beautiful  , most of them are waiting to be approached by man,who isn't going notice all the effort she went through .Some men only notice your booty or face that's it , all that crap they don't care about it . Not that they  don't see it , but isn't in man's vocabulary to look at so many things while he can appreciate  few and be satisfied. 

It's other ladies like you who's aware of what you're wearing from head to toe , we man we don't care .
Whom does ladies want to impress ?
Other ladies or man .

After sexual pleasure which you both enjoyed , most ladies expect you to leave incentives , although you don't hear just a " word " thank you , as if is you  only who benefited .

My wife to be

Me and you have been through,
Storms and hurricanes
We have been through mountains and hills.
You made me cry,
I made you cry.

Sometimes I hate loving you,
Though when you're away I miss you.
My heart and your are connected like rain and cloud.
Your blood and my blood are connected water and fish.

I believe by marrying you ,
Don't make big mistake.
I believe by marrying you ,
I will know the meaning of love.

Not born to fail

I am not born to fail.
Not born by mistake
But to be successful.
Not born to beg any one,
Or to live with freebies.
Not born to live by default ,
But to full fill my purpose .

Am here to walk my own path,
Not to follow any one.
To explore and discover.
To leave memorable legacy,
For those who will come after me.

Believing in God is task

UBelieving in God is a task which most people enjoy doing.

Just imagine every day  when you wake up  you have to pray,every day you sleep you have to pray ,before you eat or drink you have to pray ,every Sundays you have to go to Church to praise and pray ,when you hunting for life partner you have to pray ,when you're hunting for job you have to pray ,before you take a trip you have to pray. You have to read a book which was written millions years ago and believe that , whatever is written there is still relevant till to day .

Moreover bible is clear as to whom it was directed to , bible was directed at Israelites and no other nation not even Europeans .
Some goes as far as depriving themselves of  sexual pleasure , because they believe in order to be a righteous worshiper you should not engage in sexual activities .

Indeed ! believing in God is task which most of us don't feel a need to complain about .

Live to the fullest

I live , I live my life to the fullest.

I live ! I live my life to the fullest .

When I cry , cry to the fullest
When I love , I love to the fullest  .
When I laugh , I laugh to the fullest .

When I pray , I pray to the fullest .
When I hate , I hate to the fullest .
When I dance , I dance to the fullest .
When I drink , I drink to the fullest .

When I make love , I do to the fullest .
When I believe , I believe to the fullest .
When I work , I work to the fullest .

Live your life to the fullest .

Do it wholeheartedly

Whatever is it that you do , do it with all you might , because you don't know  what tomorrow have for you .
If you're employed do you're work perfectly that even if your not there your boss can miss you.
If you love some one , give him or her all your heart that , if tomorrow you're no more together he or she would not forget you ,
When you're a friend to some one give him or her the help and support they deserve ,even if you're no more friends they don't forget what you did for them .

Bear in mind people come and go in to your life , some are worth remembering and some are just waste of time to remembered them . Be that guy or that lady who isn't easy to erase in the mind , that show the impact you have in some one's life .

Big lesson Learnt

Though xenophobic is big issue among Africans ,we judge each other of where you're from and so forth , It is without a doubt that we can learn so much from each other as brothers and sister .What I've learned from Nigerians is .
1 Is possible for a black man to be capitalist .
Here in South African we have been injected with notion that blacks can only be workers not owners.
From Zimbabwe's.
That no amount of money is little .
We complain that we earn hand to mouth ,and there is nothing we can do about money ,however brothers instead of complaining they make fortune out of those incentives they earn .
From Somalians and Ethiopians.
You don't require large amount of money to start or run a businessman what is required is willingness and courage to be self employed .